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Shrink4Men - Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD @UCuKzHJaw16xmsDxIowwoFGA@youtube.com

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Shrink4Men - Helping Men in Abusive Relationships Since 2009


28:17
How to Protect Yourself from Holiday Hoovers by Borderline and Narcissist Exes
25:05
Surviving the First Christmas without the Borderline or Narcissist Ex
35:37
Will My BPD or NPD Ex Be Different with the Next Guy?
30:53
Do Narcissists and Borderlines Have a Type?
25:26
"MY TRUTH:" How Narcissists and Borderlines Weaponize Victim Narratives
22:49
Narcissists and Borderlines Will Never Be Normal
32:22
Narcissists, Borderlines, the Tendency for Interpersonal Victimhood, and False Abuse Allegations
27:28
False Abuse Allegations: Why Narcissists and Borderlines Like Amber Heard Are Such Convincing Liars
30:45
The Narcissist’s Stages of Anger and Grievance in High-Conflict Divorce
24:01
Narcissists Don’t Feel Grief—They Feel Aggrieved—in High-Conflict Divorce
20:29
How do narcissists and borderlines react when caught lying?
27:39
Mobbing and Abuse of Process in High-Conflict Divorce and Custody Disputes
27:20
When a Borderline or Narcissist Woman Says, "I Feel Unsafe" in Couples Therapy
29:24
False Abuse Allegation Risk Factors for Men: When BPD or NPD Women Say, "I Feel Unsafe," Part 2
23:37
What It Means When a Borderline or Narcissistic Woman Says, "I Feel Unsafe"
23:19
Male Abuse Victims: Understanding the Protector-Provider Role
18:22
Are You Vulnerable to Love Bombing?
16:11
Should You Wish your NPD or BPD Ex a Happy Birthday?
19:38
Challenges Men Face Against Borderline and Narcissist Ex-Wives in Family Court
25:16
How Do I Help My BPD Ex? Help Yourself First!
22:44
Is your Dating Advice Making You a Target for Narcissists and Borderlines? Part 3
24:58
Is Your Dating Advice Making You a Target for Narcissists and Borderlines? Part 2
29:50
Is Your Dating Advice Making You a Target for Narcissists and Borderlines? Part 1
21:50
Breaking Up with a NPD or BPD Woman, Part 2
13:45
Breaking Up with a BPD or NPD Woman, Part 1
13:36
Monetizing Victimhood is a Red Flag
14:54
So your Tinder Date Tells You She Has BPD
15:50
How Do You Tell a Narcissist or Borderline You Want a Divorce?
15:21
Healing Trauma from Relationships with Narcissists and Borderlines
21:23
When a Narcissist, Histrionic or Borderline Ex or Partner Contacts your Therapist
14:34
What Do Narcissists Mean by, “Let’s Make a Fresh Start?”
28:55
Couples Therapy with a Narcissist, Borderline or Histrionic Wife and Anti-Male Bias
24:06
What Winning Means to Narcissists
24:54
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist or Borderline Ex: Being the Asshole, Part 3
21:06
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist or Borderline Ex: Being the Asshole, Part 2
18:03
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist or Borderline Ex: Being the Asshole, Part 1
32:00
Couples Therapy with Narcissists and Borderlines, Pt 2
32:22
Is It Okay to Call your Ex Crazy?
24:25
Couples Therapy with Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 1
23:34
Hoovers, Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 1
24:20
Trigger Warnings, Borderlines, Narcissists and Walking on Eggshells
05:26
Dating Red Flag: "My Kids Are My Best Friends!"
15:19
Red Flag: "You Need to Fight for the Relationship!" means fighting the Narcissist or Borderline
20:15
Sheltering in Place with a Narcissist or Borderline
33:22
Sex with Borderlines: Confusing Intensity for Intimacy, Part 2
22:50
How Narcissists and Borderlines Twist and Use Words Against You
29:43
Translating Crazy: How Narcissists and Borderlines Use Language
29:27
Sex with Borderlines: Confusing Intensity for Intimacy, Part 1
22:01
Love Bombing, Brainwashing, Trauma Bonds, Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 2
22:15
Adult Toddlers, Part 2: Characteristics of Emotionally Immature Narcissists and Borderlines
22:54
DARVO: Deny, Attack and Reverse Victim and Offender
29:55
Love Bombing, Brainwashing, Trauma Bonds, Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 1
24:18
Female Stalkers, Part 2: Stalking and Harassment Behaviors vs. She's Just That Into You
23:25
Female Stalkers, Part 1: Stalking and the Differences Between Female and Male Offenders
26:13
Do You Suffer from Emotional Labor? Or from Unrealistic Relationship Expectations?
10:29
How to Love a Woman Who Has Been to Hell and Back: Run Away! Far, Far Away!
28:24
Narcissist Fight Club Rule #6: Multiple Arguments to Derail and Distract
31:06
Causes of Unhealthy Relationship Patterns for Codependents with Narcissists and Borderlines, Part 2
23:30
Adult Toddlers, Part 1: Traits of Emotionally Immature Narcissists and Borderlines
16:11
Blame and Rage: What Narcissists and Borderlines Call Problem-Solving