in 2004, about 3 weeks after my 26th birthday, i was in a barn and fell and i got paralyzed from my ribs down. the worst part is relying on others for things i did easily before myself. i was always a self reliant person before i got hurt. ive spent most of the last 14 months(2023/24) stuck in bed because of pressure sore problems. you're health is worth more than gold, yet millions of healthy people throw pity parties everyday over trivial things unfortunately. i wish everyone had to spend one week in a wheelchair on their 21st birthday to re-evaluate what's important in life and appreciate their blessings of just being alive before they head back into the hustle of life.
if you are having a tough time in life, try to take a break and go to the park or a walk in nature or a camping trip and take in the beauty of nature and let go of the stress and depression of the manmade world.
God bless