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Hey social media community... As I approach 50 years of age (6/20). I realize we are a product of how we were raised and what influenced and changed our life. If we have experienced any trauma in our life it makes an impact on us, if we don't get help or resolve that issue, it somehow spews out on the ones closest to us. Now we are not conscious of what we are doing, but if we have been abused, offended, disrespected, or neglected. We put up barriers, defenses, and preventive measures in place promising ourselves that will never happen again. The strange thing is, it does happen again in another form, because what we focus on grows. Whatever we ponder, meditate on or have focused thought, it has to manifest.
We are created in the image and likeness of God. When he said let there be, it was.
I was told we are all doing the best we can, but some of that dysfunction is spewing out on our kids, because we won't get that healed/resolved. It's been said we are as sick as our secrets. How long will our kids pay for what we won't settle or get help with?
Don't our kids deserve better?
Shouldn't we give them a better fighting chance than us?
Must we transfer our pain on them?
They say pain will teach you, what pride won't let you learn.
#evolution #revelation #epiphany #growthanddevelopment #maturing #self-awarness
Food 4 thought
Tony B
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As I approach 50 years of age. I myself am learning what self respect looks like and how I have allowed others to treat Mme poorly and thought nothing of it. I have a great respect for women, mainly because of my respect for my mom as a single parent mother. But what I didn't know it made me a go fetch it boy or you are here to take out the trash. Never realizing my contribution kept the family moving. My assisting made the house run smoothly. The problem with putting everyone first or always thinking of others is... You teach others how to put you last.
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So where is my over 40 crowd? The ones that have pulled through some relationships and learned from it and something about yourself. The ones that have picked up the pieces and made something workable. My survivors who started doing something for themselves. I see you. Many didn't appreciate you, but are still strong. I see you. It takes a certain bravery to start over, but you are worth it. Keep remolding, reshaping, keep fighting through. You are more that enough!
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