02:36
"Weak people terrify me" - the traumatised & their rescuers
00:58
The "hive mind" instead of a self
13:02
The key: "They cannot accept you as separate because they were not allowed to separate as babies."
03:11
"Narcissist is an introvert" (MBTI, memory, empathy).
05:50
Solaris by Stanisław Lem
05:50
"Reframe the relationship" [with your Narcissist]. So that you can be happy...
02:27
What a Narcissist has to offer
05:56
"Empath... is a grandiose claim to uniqueness. Zero clinical significance"
01:45
"Empaths are co-dependent enablers"
04:44
"We are in the thick of self destruction: isolated, atomised, lonely, afraid, avoidant, retreating"
01:38
"The self is the intersection of relationships"
05:59
"Cluster B personality disorders are not about presence, they are about absence"
05:46
There are two options [for the future]: Nothingness and Narcissism
05:09
How to help the Narcissist? Help yourself instead
06:42
Borderline emptiness from emotional dysregulation. They try new things...
03:47
Cluster B is preferable to Schizotypy?
03:35
Nothingness: "To be authentic you need to coordinate transcendence and facticity"
08:05
A description of Autism
02:52
Cluster B initial "split" from Mother
01:43
A description of Borderline's internal world
02:55
Why Borderlines are worth it
06:25
An allegory of what it's like to be a Narcissist
01:25
"Children who grew up with dead mothers become dead"
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I am not Sam Vaknin, and I'm definitely not the author of Malignant Self-Love. These are personal bookmarks that I use for conversation, and you should follow the links to his full lectures and leave your comments there. This is his work and will not be monetised by me.
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