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Have you ever had one of those moments, when it feels like you're just simply butting heads with your kids... When you're questioning all that you're doing as a parent... Just for them to turn around and give you the most heartwarming moment, that makes it all worth it? 🥺 I want to know that moment! Share it in the comments 👇
I'll go first...
Lately, my kiddos and I have been navigating some rough patches – you know, those days where everything feels a bit "blah." But the other night, something incredible happened.
As my husband and I were caught up in work, the realization struck that dinner hadn't even been started. Just when I began to feel the weight of the day, my eldest three piped up: "Don't worry – let us handle dinner tonight!"
I'll admit, I had my doubts. Would there be arguments? Messes beyond belief? Perhaps a dinner that barely resembled a meal?
But oh, how wrong I was! With a little faith, they crafted a feast – fish patties, cheese wraps, and a fresh salad. It wasn't just edible; it was delicious and balanced! They even worked together seamlessly, tidying as they cooked. When they called us to the table and presented their creations with a makeshift menu, my heart swelled with pride.
There are those moments when everything we work towards (and has been kind of dormant or not apparent) suddenly bubble up and become real, visible, tangible. It reminds me of the ice cube story - do you remember it? How at -1 degree and -8 degrees we see no change, but suddenly at 0 degrees and +1 we start to see visible melting...
So here's a reminder for all of us: even when progress feels slow, keep at it. Keep nurturing that family culture, because those breakthrough moments are just around the corner! 🌟
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What's holding you back from following through on your dream family life? 🤔 You can't afford to spend another year wishing you had done ____ and experienced ____ (fill in the blanks)!!! That's why I'm going live tomorrow to expose a pervasive parenting myth and provide you with the tools and insights you need to overcome it. 💪 Do you want a *customized* action plan to help you get unstuck? 🙋♀️ JOIN ME IN ZOOM tomorrow, April 30 at 1pm >> us02web.zoom.us/j/84209220738 << This is your chance to pick my brain 🧠 about anything that's troubling your family, not working with your child, tripping you up in your home, or causing stress in your schedule… Whether you ask me live or just listen in - don't miss this opportunity to take the first step towards transforming your parenting experience and creating the family life you've always dreamed of! 💜
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“I feel like I’m messing this up.” - this used to be a regular soundtrack in my head.
Every night, I'd find myself lost in a whirlwind of doubts:
Did I raise my voice too much?
Was I truly present?
Will my kids need therapy because of my mistakes?
All roads led to one conclusion: "I'm not good enough as a parent." But you know what? Enough is enough.
🚫 Say NO to the guilt trip! 🚫
We deserve to feel proud, confident, and at peace with our parenting choices. No more apologies, no more second-guessing. Let's make parenting guilt-free, shame-free, and downright enjoyable!
My wake-up call came years ago. My kids didn't want a mom shackled by guilt; they craved a mom who exuded pride, confidence, and presence.
And so, the journey to hack parenting began.
There are some truly amazing secrets that I’ve discovered that have completely shifted my own parenting experience with my five little kids… and I share them in depth inside The Studio Membership.
Unlock these secrets inside The Studio Membership:
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The Studio opens its doors ONCE A YEAR, so don't miss this chance! Trust me, it's worth every moment. Let's embark on this transformative journey together.
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Visit hifam.com/studio and flip that parenting script. Don't let this opportunity pass you by!
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Hey Friend! Mark your calendars for Monday - we're diving into a live session at 1pm EST! 🚀
⏰ Married-U doors are closing soon (on February 29th), but before that happens, I want to hear YOUR burning questions! Whether it's about feminism, peaceful parenting, couples therapy, or any key topic from the marriage masterclass or podcast, I'm here to answer. And guess what? You can ask anonymously!
👉 Submit your questions here: forms.gle/jdQBCYudkn58sgw87
Even if you're not joining Married-U just yet, this is your chance to get meaningful answers.
Join me live on Monday, February 26th, at 1pm EST. We'll try to record it for you too!
That's...
10am Los Angeles
12pm Chicago
1pm New York
6pm London
7pm Berlin
8pm Tel Aviv
🌐 Zoom ID: 864 1606 7639
us02web.zoom.us/j/86416067639
Psst... I have a generous gift to share – the most impactful one my husband and I ever received. And, yes, I'm passing it on to YOU during our live session!
Can't wait to debunk myths, reframe distortions, and infuse your life with passion, love, and romance.
See you there, Friend! 🌈
Keep on living that Hi Fam life!
Much love,
Avital
P.S. If you haven't heard about my brand new course Married-U is yet - check it out at married-u.com/ and take that first step in building the Marriage of your Dreams with the Partner that you've got.
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Phew, they say writing a book is not for the faint of heart and I now fully understand why 87% of people who want to write a book - don’t ever write one.
But with gratitude to my children who played independently for enough hours for me to actually both write and illustrate this book (yep, those doodles are mine! 😉) - I have now escaped that statistic and my book baby has been born!!!
Reclaim Play delivers an inspiring manifesto on why play is critical for children and a comprehensive how-to for parents to bring back the magic of childhood.
"Practical and wise, this book will help modern-day parents and kids reclaim deeply nourishing, natural independent play. I couldn't recommend it more!" – Hunter Clarke-Fields, author of Raising Good Humans
🎊 We’re celebrating over here and I want to give you some juicy pre-order bonuses because these will be such great compliments to what you’ll learn in the book (and because, in lieu of confetti, that’s just how we roll)...
🎁 Childhood Design Video Series: Jumpstart your journey to Reclaim Play with this bonus video series that will garner you some seriously quick wins! You'll learn how to use the environment and toys you already have to turn your home into an irresistible play space for your child.
🎁 Ultimate Toy Guide: Get tailor-made shopping lists by age and stage with tried and true tips and recommendations that ensure your child engages in meaningful play, so you never have to lose 2 hours of your life browsing Amazon for the perfect toy again!
If there was one piece of advice I could give ALL parents everywhere, it would be this: Reclaim Play. And that’s why I’ve written this book. No other parenting choice that I have made has made as much of a difference in my family’s life.
Reclaiming play has allowed me to keep my job, start a business, nurture my marriage, work out regularly, and manage my household... because all my five children play for hours a day. This is life-changing and it’s been THE pillar of my work because I believe (and evidence agrees with me) it’s so healthy for children, parents, and the family as a whole.
"...More than anything else, play develops their brains and bodies, sparks their creativity, and teaches them all the relational soft skills that are the hardest to learn later on. Avital Schreiber Levy knows this and teaches this better than anyone, and that's why I'm so thrilled she wrote this book." – Hal Runkel, NYT bestselling author of ScreamFree Parenting
It’s now time to reveal my reverse-engineered, in-depth, research-backed, actionable, and somewhat entertaining handbook of over a decade of parenting and coaching all about independent play.
There’s a big gaping Reclaim-Play-shaped hole on your coffee table, it’s time to remedy that...
🎉 Be the first to buy it here! >> amzn.to/47Xb0pb
Keep on living that Hi Fam life!
Much love,
Avital
PPS Send your mom-friends a book-hug 💕📚🤗 by claiming a few extra copies in your pre-order!
"This book... will save a generation of children from a play-less existence." – Dr. Shefali, clinical psychologist and NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent
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New video alert! Working Moms be like... 5 mindset hacks for working parents to feel empowered and inspired. Have you watched it yet? https://youtu.be/OOQuYV90k4M What topics would you love more videos from me on?
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Imagine a future where...
Your 7-year-old prefers a "Friday Campfire Night" to a sleepover at a friend's house - because they’re just so fun and special.
Your 11-year-old says “Nah!” to playing Minecraft, because they’d rather snuggle on the couch for a family game night with you.
Your 16-year-old brings their friends over to hang at your house because your house is "The Place" to be.
Your 20-year-old calls you on a Sunday night to spill all the beans and ask for guidance in their new romantic relationship.
Your 29-year-old chooses to live near you so they can raise their children near their grandparents and bring them up with the same values as you raised them.
These are some of my hopes and dreams.
Here’s what I know to be true:
The sense of belonging and togetherness we create within our families now will carry our children into the future.
If we want these dreams to happen, it’s time to start planting those seeds! 🌱
If you want to create an unbreakable family, and you’re thinking about joining the Studio but you think “I’ll get to that later.” I want to set the record straight:
Parenting a 15-year-old starts when they’re 5.
Now is the time to lay the foundation of a meaningful family culture.
Do you want to help your children build... Resilience? A can-do attitude? Gratitude?
That starts now.
Do you want them to be happy taking unplugged time in nature, enjoying the simple things with the family?
That begins today.
Do you hope they’ll come to you for wisdom when they’re going through a rough patch?
Set the stage this year.
The Studio www.hifam.com/studio is the only program that is designed to help you become the leader your children need - now and in the future.
A year is a huge part of a child’s life - we all know how fast they grow up! Don't wait another year to build the foundation of togetherness, resilience, and meaning that will guide them through their next stage of life.
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No, there’s nothing “wrong” with your family. You just haven’t taken this bootcamp, yet. Join now, it’s free and life changing. 🤩We start Tomorrow!! So hurry up and grab your FREE Tickets>> www.hifam.com/bootcamp
👋 I am Avital & I am a mad scientist 👩🔬 when it comes to family: reading, researching, blending ancient wisdom with evidence-based science, adjusting it all for modern life, testing the ideas on my own family of 7 and then synthesizing all of this goodness into simple actionable strategies that can save you light years of painful trial and error.
I have taught Family Life Design on podcasts, in books, on stages around the world and worked coached families of all walks of life. Stick with me and I'll help you with the roadmap to combat today's culture of anxiety, screen addiction and hypersensitivity so that you can raise resilient kids, build unbreakable family bonds. 🔗
You didn't go to the tremendous effort of starting a family - only to suffer through the day-to-day grind, waiting for bedtime.
😍 You started your family because you had a dream in your heart of connection and joy. Let's make that dream your every day reality, and the legacy you build for generations to come.
🏃♀️🏃♀️Hurry up and get in there because bootcamp is starting TOMORROW! www.hifam.com/bootcamp
💗 See you soon!
-Avital xx
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Do you struggle with overwhelm as a parent?
As a mother of 5 myself, I totally get it.
Parenting is a lot.
Family life is hard.
And I think as parents, we totally understand that it’s a lot of work, right?
We’re not afraid of hard work. 🧽 🍼 🥱
But we also want the rewards! 🥰💃🥲
Like the magic of joy, connection and meaning…
We want to feel:
Confident, calm and really connected to our family.
Joyful, fun and even that magic of family life.
Teamwork, togetherness and a deep, lifelong bond
But sadly, more often than not, we’re just:
⏭️Going through the motions
🗓️Getting through the day
😱Screaming, yelling, threatening
🍫Escaping to the pantry to stuff our faces with chocolate
📱Doom scrolling on our phones to drown out the bickering of sibling spats
Oh, and - ouch! That’s the lego I just stepped on.
Chaos, clutter, conflicts… It's confusing and disappointing that family life is so stressful.
But hold up - that’s about to change. 🦸
In this training you'll discover where to put your precious time and attention to get massive results, fast. 💨
In the *Dream Family Bootcamp*, you'll learn that you don't have to do all the things (no human can handle that type of pressure!)
But there are ⚠️ 4 Crucial Questions ⚠️ that all great parents need to answer on a regular basis, if you want clarity, conviction and confidence in your journey.
Sign up now (It’s FREE!) at Hifam.com/bootcamp (no VPNS or it won’t load) and get the most comprehensive, deep, life-changing leadership training you will ever receive as a parent - and lead your family to a calmer, more connected future!
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Avital is a mother of 5 who has created an online empire that inspires millions of parents. She has taught parents from over 100 countries and all walks of life how to create a family life they love. Combatting today's culture of anxiety, screen addiction and hypersensitivity - Hi Fam offers a roadmap to guide parents who want to raise anti-fragile children.
A pragmatic, tough love approach and a belief that meaning begins at home: Avital helps parents form intentional culture, blending ancient wisdom with modern living. She will teach you to: reclaiming the lost art of play, design a purposeful home life and to strengthen the relationship between the parents.
Avital leads international retreats, speaks on stages around the world, hosts a show with millions of views, and is featured as an expert on top platforms. Her best-selling course ReclaimPlay will be joined by the book, Reclaim Play in 2023.
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