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If emotions are a byproduct of perception, it is pointless to argue about their feelings. If you think their feelings are wrong, find out what thoughts they are having behind those feelings and go from there.
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Validating feelings is not accepting blame. Itās getting closer in order to gain understanding. Ok Got it.
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I had a friend whose feeling werenāt ā¦ letās say based in reality. She came at me with random accussations like āyou clearly think XY about me because your eyes twitched a certain way ( or some other weird āsignā that clearly has a specific meaning)ā. I tried really hard to validate her feelings and see why she would think that way and softly explain the misunderstanding. I thought we were having a open and healthy discussion. Turns out she took my empathy for confirmation. When I tried to tell her that I feel hurt when she constantly jumps to conclusions like that and I donāt feel like she ever gives me the benefit of the doubt or validates my point of viewā¦. she told me that I am delulu, my feelings are not based in reality and maybe I should talk to someoneā¦ š
I donāt think I ever felt so gaslighted in my life
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A stone will remain a stone no matter how you feel about it but the existence of your emotions towards the stone are exactly as real as the stone itself.
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Jimmy, the entire human population could benefit from you wisdom.
Thank you for helping me become a better man.
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Because of this video alone, I started a relationship advice playlist for myself. This is something I need to remember when I interact with people, but also one I can share with other people too. I've never been able to explain this by myself
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Thereās a difference between a healthy way to share your feelings and an unhealthy toxic abusive way to express your feelings, but if the person doesnāt care to express it in a healthy way, thatās a huge factor because thatās a problem in itself that must be worked on. Feelings canāt be used as a license to say or act like anything. Some people can misconstrue it in their minds to mean that.
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My first thought whenever feelings are dismissed as "not real", I'm reminded that there are real chemical reactions going on -- that we feel.
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Feelings are true, even though the thoughts or beliefs that caused those feelings may not be
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This is such an important distinction to make when trying to establish healthy communication! You nailed it
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I struggle with this real hard. Iām a woman but was raised at such an emotional distance that emotional validation is foreign to me and I rely on facts. I am guilty of being the first guy. I guess the only thing I request at this point is a partner who can be articulate with their feelings which I can understand rather than just BEING emotional and not communicating. I donāt know what to do about that if they wonāt talk to me.
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Used to get these videos on my feed at the end of my last relationship. Was a big part in making me realise I was fighting for a lost cause. Relationship ended and I stopped getting these videos. Weāve started seeing each other again, and just like the anxiety and the uneasiness returned, so did the videos. The algorithm terrifies me
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Love is verb, something that often asks questions. That does what "it doesn't feel like doing".
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You hit the nail on the head. We arenāt the judge of whether or not someone is allowed to feel something.
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I like that explanation. That goes along with anybody's Mental Health situation, they feel it. Therefore, it is their reality! You are just acknowledging how they feel, not that they're blaming or accusation has any validity / accountability for you. If they want to argue, then maybe the situation has more to do with them wanting to argue than what the argument is about. That might be the time to go get some evaluations, so you actually know what you're dealing with.
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Feelings ARE facts, in that regardless of if you believe in them or not, the feeling is still there. If I say "I'm feeling disrespected", the no amount of "but I wasn't being disrespectful to you!" is going to change that feeling.
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Except when they see it as agreeing and you can't convince them, and in turn, they use it as a way to always say they don't agree with any facts and label things all as feelings
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Validating an emotion is exactly that. You acknowledge that a person is feeling the way they do, without trying to override them. It's not about right or wrong it's either you believe them or not. If you can't even believe what your partner is telling you, why are you with them? They won't tell you anything, important or not, after a while... Discussing WHY they are feeling it is another issue. Or how they are expressing it.
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Jimmy, i just want you to know that i'm so glad i came across your videos when i did.. they helped keep me grounded during and eventually helped me leave a relationship that tried to break me entirely. your small glimmer of hope and reason helped me hold onto my sense of self.. thank you šš½
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@kaoryakasaka6835
3 months ago
"Feelings aren't facts. When they're anyone's but mine"
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