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Check out the full video: • The Joys of Not Needing People
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I have gone to at least 3 different "support groups" and in every one of them I noticed the group dynamic was stifled by one or two people who used the group as their personal stage and thus dominated the group. I even noticed this at AA. Most group "facilitators" are well-meaning wimps who do not know how to set boundaries or enforce rules within the groups they facilitate. Yes, we all need people but a lot of people are attention hos. People are ego-driven and dealing with them can be exhausting. A little social interaction goes a long way foe me personally as I love the tranquility of flying solo until I meet someone special who is not just using me or is a vampiric drama queen.
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I feel much better in the forrest among the animals and plants and moisture than with people and thier many problems and disconnect. nature gets it. we don't.
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Thank you you are so right discuss that in more detail solitude is bliss seems more and more introverts telling truth about why we enjoy aloneness and avoid unwanted interaction
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As humans you cant live alone but introverts can get the exact meaning conveyed here.
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“Hell is other people “
- Sartre
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One’s survival in this world is surely dependent on many people but one’s happiness is dependent only on oneself.
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Don't depend on anyone but let people in. It's not about being alone (which has negative health and mental effects). It's more about being completely yourself so that those who vibe with you are the ones who stick around. The rest will sort of fall off naturally and you will be left with a tribe of kindred souls.
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People...people who don't need people are the luckiest people in the world.
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“You won’t age for 6-7-8 years then in two years you will age like a decade, and then it will repeat like that. It’s shocking.”
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People need to be self-aware enough to know if they are an introvert, extrovert or ambivert. An extrovert will have a much harder time feeling emotionally healthy without a good amount of social interaction.
I am a hard-core introvert and so a message like this can be more applicable. It certainly does not apply to everyone.
I certainly agree with the underlying message that it’s best to be good at getting your needs met (that can mean going and meeting many new people to find those you click with - that is still a form of doing the work to meet your own needs) so as not to be emotionally dependent on abusive people.
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Being independent is really important
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I'm 15. It's been 3 years since i started to think about this. Being alone is being free.
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Think like this and you will feel lonely and sad. I've experienced it myself. I don't like being alone. Just find decent enough people 😊
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My own family calls me “antisocial” for having my own place, my own vehicles, pay my own bills, working on self improving and not having my own family yet.
they think not needing anyone to love me, feed me, or work for me is a disgrace, but I think of myself as self reliable, competitive, productive and AT PEACE.
Even being attach to a pet would be a future problem when it passes away and I don’t have time to be responsible on it so I better not get one.
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On the other hand, learning to deal with diverse people behavior leads to mental toughness, resilience and EQ
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Couldn't be further from the fact. We need loving people around that grow our aspirations and offer support when we face challenges. And an individual is not meant to be egoistic, that's what he becomes by being unable to find likeminded people and not seing good examples.
Without good people, we become cowards that praise individuality knowing full well of the drawbacks.
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We like to think we are social, we like to think we are connected, my goodness we are not.
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That real,, I move in silence, I trust me, ✔️🎓 and god
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You're so right! Not needing people is a blessing. It gives you so much freedom. I happen to be one of those somewhat rare solitary and happy people. I find it difficult to understand why so many humans can't stand spending time on their own and are sometimes desperately looking for company...
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@NotThairapy
1 year ago
There may always be a risk when dealing with imperfect individuals which is everyone but that doesn't out way what you can get from people. Humans are social individuals and if you can get a good group of people who are willing to put effort in each other even through the tough you can do a lot more than just being alone. I personally spend a lot of time alone but I always value and will push myself to form friendships and relationships with people because you don't know what you will get out of it. Get yourself in a good and safe state where you can know who you are and occasionally push that boundary and grow instead of just staying stagnant with no one willing to push you forward.
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