🤔 Is it good habit or bad habit?

💪 Yes, we often think what we do already good and right, but so many times we've been cheated by our own mind. We are "ADDICTED" by other people's judgement or praise, that we are good.

👍 Let's check this out.

1️⃣ Giving no boundaries
We often feel bad when we saying "No" or making a rejection. More often we take other people's responsibility become ours.

We think that's a good attitude, or manners, or positive behavior, but uh oh.. it is NOT.

When we give no boundaries, it shows people that we can be MANIPULATED easily.

2️⃣ Lie to ourselves
When we lie to ourselves to direct our mind to be better, yes it's good.
But when we lie to ourselves just to run away from facing, solving our problems, that's bad habit!

3️⃣ Push ourselves over the limit
As we don't want to be judged as a person that giving up so easily, we often work too hard, love too much, be patient for too long, and another "too"'s..

We think this is a good habit of not GIVING UP, of RESILIENT! But other way around, we are torturing ourselves and let ourselves down, and slowly our INNER VOICE getting shut down, we don't know when we really deserve a relaxing time, or should leave a bad relationship, or just say, to look everything CLEARER! It's bad habit.

4️⃣ Knows a lot, practice zero!
We maybe someone who love to read or listen to so many positive things!

But when it comes to practice, we never do anything right. We don't walk the talk! This is so bad habit.

Knows a lot is good. Read many books is good, but what kind of book and do we practice what we learn or read?

❤️ Before we judge anyone's bad habit, bad attitude, bad action, better we look into ourselves, have we done it right? Have we made progress? Are we becoming a better person now?

Happy Friday and have a beautiful day ❤️😊🙏

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