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YES!! Physical, emotional, mental and even spiritual health benefits from touch!! Thankfully our pediatrician taught us the importance of exposing our children to germs early on because I could have been one of those overly protective moms. He said exposure helps their bodies practice fighting off infection. Without practice, it’s more severe.
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There is a certain age when children have established immune systems more. A new baby like this, this mom has every right to say that. It is SOOOO hard and SCARY caring for an ill infant. People don’t THINK about that and get all offended. Let the child eat dirt as a toddler when their system is stronger. American kids getting sick? I believe there are so many reasons for this starting with hidden malnutrition.
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That’s a newborn! My mother lied and told me she was not sick when she was, I let her hold newborn baby and he then had a cold in the first days of his life! He would stop breathing in the night, it did not make him stronger, 6 months old bronchiolitis, 11 months old asthma diagnosis, he slept never more then 45min in a row for the first year of his life. What did my mother have to say? “Nothing was going to stop me from seeing my grandson”. Thanks a lot mum.
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Physical touch yes, no need to kiss the baby though. I've read a case of a baby dying from herpes meningitis after being kissed by a family member, who was repeatedly asked not to kiss the baby. And personally I know my grandparents hygiene has always been lacking since I started to observe; they don't wash their hands often, etc. And then my grandma gets offended when my sister won't let her kiss my nieces, or won't let them eat after her.
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As a mama who had postpartum depression and anxiety shortly after birth, I also respect her decision and I'm glad to see that her parents did as well despite finding it ridiculous. It's scary, especially as a FTM to trust others when that same scenario has caused infants to get pretty sick. I personally allowed my parents to kiss and snuggle my newborn, but for anyone else, I'd ask them to wait until baby had their vaccines. To each their own.
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I am a pediatric nurse practitioner, so I have a lot of experience in this area. This mom was completely completely right to not let anyone kiss her baby. Holding the baby is one thing, but there is a lot more bacteria in your mouth, and some very dangerous bacteria, that can give babies illnesses that could potentially kill them due to their less developed immune system. There are also some sicknesses that we get, that wouldn’t hurt us, but the baby could have a much worse effect on babies, like Covid. We advise parents to prevent people from kissing their babies for this reason. The kid will get plenty of exposure to germs in preschool and kindergarten, or any kind of daycare, and by that time their immune system will be developed enough to handle it, so you should not worry about trying to expose your baby to unnecessary illnesses. Keeping your baby healthy is not going to affect their immune system in the future. The reason most likely reason children are getting sick more often now, and worse now, is because of Covid and the lockdown, which lesson their exposure to other viruses therefore, in a way, weakening their immune system. This happened to adults as well. If you’re not getting exposed to something, then you’re not building up antibodies to it, which means when you finally get exposed to it, you’re going to get sick.
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Idk what the comments talking about your DRs when you give birth to that baby say the same exact things. You’re not suppsed to be kissing all over a baby at that point we carry strong viruses that the babies haven’t experienced and their body’s aren’t ready for. Baby’s body’s aren’t meant to fight off viruses well.
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My youngest was born just before covid. If I had told my mother this, she would have cried… but I never even CONSIDERED telling her she couldn’t kiss or snuggle my children/her grandchildren.
That said - I don’t remember her kissing any of them when they were this little. Lots of snuggles and smells (nothing like that new baby smell), but no kisses. Honestly - I don’t think I kissed my children when they were this young either. That’s more of a silly thing you do with them when they’re a little older and more awake and you can watch them smile and respond to it. At this stage they sleep most of the time and the instinct to kiss them just isn’t there - at least, apparently, not in our family. BUT holding them close enough to kiss? Yes, all day. And I never restricted my MIL, SIL or mom from how they wanted to interact with my children - even in the middle of the scam… I mean pandemic.
They are healthy children who never get sick now so 🤷♀
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Absolutely agree with you sir. The mother’s immune system is protecting the baby right now. And it needs to be exposed to certain germs and bacteria to build up its own immune system.
Think about it if you were basically kept in a clean room for the first 10-12 months of your life and then introduced into the world. How sick do you think you would get almost immediately?
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@mperschon
1 month ago
Setting the boundary softly is fine, humiliating her for asking clarifying questions...not cool. Humilating your Mom online, absolutely gross. She's showing up, supporting you, asking clarifying questions. Do better, Daughter.
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