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My mom passed, about a year ago. Ive called my dad a sociopath for years. Told my mom that he didnt love her but he gaslight her so much that she couldnt live without him. 'He was the only person who loved her,' her words, never. Ever, EVER , mine.
The day before her funeral, my dad turned to me and said, you know... i think youre right. Im a sociopath. I didnt love your mother. She gave me what i needed and i didnt care. Im not crying because she was everything to me; im crying because im alone and i have no one to do things for me anymore.
Dont be my mom; if youre in an abusive, verbal, mental, physical relationship or they dont love you. Leave. Please. It seems hopeless but its not. My mom had 4 kids, 2 in laws, and 2 grandkids who loved her. But she was so tunnel visioned; she couldnt see that. She thought his love was more important, that it was all she had.
Mama Ru says: If you cant love yourself. How in the heck you gonna love someone else? Can i get a Amen up in here?!
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I had this exact conversation with my boyfriend
I love that I can talk to him... even about other people from my past - he'll listen and hold me for however long I need - he understands and knows he doesnt need to say anything
He truly loves me - he raised the bar for ALL my relationships - not just romantically but with family and friends too
Dating him REALLY drove in that last screw I needed to start thinking "I dont deserve this" in some many aspects of my life
It hits different to have a person who's there 😂 friend or partner - just SOMEONE and finding them takes a long time - but its so worth waiting fo
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It's hard sometimes to accept that you were being used for bad reasons. Knowing that what you had was now gone forever for a person who wasn't worth it...
Edit: It won't always be there. I promise. You will heal, and it will become a scar, but just remember there are people who love you even if it's not what you want. The day will come when you find the right one who loves you for you.
Edit: There will be points in life where everything seems so dark and empty, but there will be a light, whether it's a person, animal, or anything that makes you feel a alive again or just happy. Never give up on happiness.
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Realizing someone doesn't share your feelings, be it romantic or platonic, is a hard thing to go through. Realizing you don't mean to them a fraction of what they mean to you hurts so damn bad. And moving on from that is so much worse, since leaving a powerful feeling lile that behind feels like leaving a part of yourself behind. But getting out is the best thing you can do for yourself.
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i never knew how difficult it is to realize you don’t actually mean as much to someone, compared to how much they mean to you, until i went through it. its especially hard when you never felt that sort of affection. when you’ve never received that type of love before, even the bare minimum can make you feel on top of the world. to this day, i still doubt the fact that I didn’t really mean anything to them, and I crave the attention and validation I felt like I received from them everyday.
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This stabbed me in the heart on how relatable this is. A person can say they like and love you, but when they don't make you feel loved, secured, safe and comfortable... that's when you know they are only after your body and not you. Some people like to use other people just for their selfishness. Which is sad... because my ex, only loved me for my body not who i am. You know, it feels so different when that significant other... really touches your heart, because you know that they genuinely want you in their life and not just for fun.
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Why am I still sad over someone like this. It's been over half a year and I still think about him daily, not in a romantic way but it just intrusively pops into my mind. I try to be mindful and patient about it when I catch my brain going through that loop again, but the emotions I feel are so intense. I know it wasn't good for me and I'm proud I stepped away. I will never 100% know if he just played with me or respected and cared for me, but i felt so much for him. So much.
I try not to hate myself for it because it truly feels like something out of my control, but I figured it would have died down by now. I have an amazing bf who I feel is the best person I have ever known and I feel seen and loved by him and he makes me so happy. And at the same time there that old hurt keeps popping up and it scares me that I felt so much for someone who has probably forgotten me already, while I feel little attraction towards my awesome bf. I feel so lost in this, I hope the universe can guide me a little. But reading other comments and experiences has helped a little as well, thank you :)
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Hits hard. For years I would be insecure asking him if he even liked me because it seemed all he liked about me was sex. After all those years, the first time I put boundaries up around sex "I won't have sex until I feel like it, and don't pester me about it." And immediately he dumped me and tried to tell me it was unrelated, even while making it clear that he still was going to try and talk me into having sex with him as much as possible.
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I remember my ex mistreated me so bad, I ended up calling a hotline a few times. One person said that I can still love someone and still leave them (for my own safety and wellbeing.) sometime love isn’t enough! I learned over the years that being completely alone isn’t the worst thing in the world, it’s being with the wrong person and keep hoping they will change….
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@lorilynne571
2 months ago
"I got out," but you never get out unscathed. Please remember that before you are a couple, you are an individual. Do not allow yourself to tolerate mistreatment.
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