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Idk man, abuse caused a permanent physical illness/nerve disorder that causes me constant pain and major health issues. That's what's standing in my way, and it's their fault.
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I blame everyone in the comments section.
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I think whatās missing with this āideaā is that SOMETIMES people have parents who deliberately and STRATEGICALLY do things or carry out plans to maintain control or sometimes even sabotage their grown adult children well into them āmoving onā and creating a new life. Overall and as a whole, no, you canāt blame your parents for your childhood but in many cases, dysfunctional and narcissistic parents know no bounds.. well into their childrenās (no matter how grown) adult hood.š¤¦š¾ā
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one can blame ones parents, but not use them as an excuse. forgive them, do not forget, and grow up to who you are better as.
a cause is seldom a reason
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It was through research, meditation, and introspection I came to this realization. Letting go and forgiving my parents for the wrong they did commit is the most difficult thing I have had to do in my life. I encourage you all to look inward and seek the wisdom of the ancients.
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I am me. Itās been a hard 32 years and itās only been thatā¦ learned the harsh truth of self reliance from the age of 5 and was raised through the discipline of suffering.
I wouldnāt wish my life on my worst enemy but wouldnāt trade it for any other life. It seems Iām built to endure.
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Depends on the context, while this is a positive and hopeful message, it doesnt apply to everyone, i wish it did but it doesnt. the dismal and unfathomable failures of my parents has done irreversible damage and cost me far too much to the point where i am no longer entitled to a life worth living and that fact wont change whether i blame them or not. i will make the most of what is left but it will never be what it should be. hope nobody relates but thats my side of things
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āItās not your fault, but it is now youāre responsibilityā
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Don't forget, it's what father & mother does that wires the child's mind. THAT becomes the baggage heaped up developing children, thusly suffering the sins of thy father and thy mother.
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I donāt blame my parents for all my issues, but to say they never had any impact would also be incorrect. Iāll own up to my end if you own up to yours.
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this is true, but it is very hard to do, since a neurotic kid will have problems to live away from their parents due to financial distress. Thus, parents will keep causing neurosis in their kid. Once this distress is solved, they can see better their own neurosis.
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Accepting responsibility is very good, but credit where credit is due. š
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Question most adults in these situations of hating their parents while npt makimg a chanhe themselves, never ask themselves is: Does it excuse me from changing myself now, right here and moving forward?
And for those who say yes and excuse themselves for their bad behaviour, pointing at their past. You will be the source of your own misery moving forward.
Making a change is hard. Like everything worth fighting for is.
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Respect is something that does not come automatically with becoming a parent! Respect is something you need to work for! That is something many parents do not get!! So l have big respect for my dad, but none for my 'mother'! Thanks heavens we had a dad who loved us to pieces! Because my 'scars' would be really serious with the 'mother' l have!
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Just be grateful that you've unmeshed yourself from their lives in order to heal, move on and unapologetically live your own ā®ļø
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Man, I could have heard this 20 years ago, but now I'm careworn, unfixable.
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My biggest problem was when I found out that my father didnāt show up to his paternity rights hearing when I was an infant because he had an active drug related warrant. From then on I felt like I wasnāt good enough, because I believed naively that if he had loved me he wouldāve shown up, and fought to be in my life. That gave me years of chronic depression that was not helped by my mother, for example being forced to watch Saw or Hellraiser movies for āfamily timeā when I was absolutely too young to be watching that kind of stuff and if I didnāt want to watch that it wasnāt my choice to make so I could just go somewhere never mind that our walls were paper thin and the volume would be maxed. It took ~20 years for me to realize that I was not the solution to my fatherās problem. In that time my mother was not a good role model and never had my respect unlike other family members like my grandmother or great aunt, and my mother blames me for the way I turned out even though I havenāt done anything as bad as the things sheād done through her younger life. I donāt even have a speeding ticket or parking ticket, never smoked before the legal age to do so, havenāt been promiscuous, I donāt even like bars or clubs and Iāve never done the drugs that sheās done in those places. Yet since I donāt respect her and she canāt control me, Iām the problem. I donāt blame them for my actions today, I blame both of them for the trauma theyāve given me, and I credit them with my ability to read people just by the way they speak in a single sentence, I also credit them for my ability to learn from other peopleās mistakes and bad choices.
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Basically, blame is not an excuse. And the excuse gets more tenuous the longer one is into adulthood.
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Every problem ever created came from thieves and cheaters. If your parents are not thieves and cheaters you can not blame them, now if a child or a parent is thief or cheater they are to blame and should take all the punishment.
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