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This also applies to friendships imo
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Goes for parents too. When around my parents, I can feel my sense of self and my authenticity slip away
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I think it’s also important to remember that Michelangelo’s idea behind sculpting was that every sculpture was hidden behind their respective slabs, and that his job was to draw them out.
Every rock has a sculpture hidden in it. He never tried to sculpt it into something he envisioned.
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In short we can never stop being affected by the company we keep
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i believe the sense of self is always fluctuating and changing, especially in regards to people. we change because we want to and because we need to. i think the problems arise when we forget that not everyone cares about who you want to be or how you want to achieve it. we end up submitting our vulnerability to someone who doesn't deserve our full respect and we learn the hard way that change doesn't always feel good. we also end up learning that we should be more careful with who we allow to stay in our lives and thusly, who we allow to mould us. "does this person have my best interest at heart?"
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I had a relationship in which we were both Michelangelo to each other, but also very violent.
Guess we sculpted too hard...
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After a literal lifetime of Pygmalion type relationships (in the general sense, I'm including familial here) I'm finally living alone and really figuring out who I am. I still have partners, and they still shape me to a degree, but it's much more situational and not long lasting or disorienting. This is the strongest my sense of self has ever been.
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I liked this short and sweet thing. I love extended analysis but this is good for either when your too exhausted or for those just starting their healing journey. Its a good starting point for sure.
This specific video was incredible.
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My worst relationships were ones where my partner had strong opinions about my superficial qualities, and never bothered to get to know the true me. I always left when I was once again set on a path that wasn't aligned with my true self, just what their fantasy of an ideal partner was. And that's a shallow existence...
People, let's all be self-aware, and take a moment to assess whether or not you're doing this to your partner. I guarantee you that my exes didn't mean any harm by this, and I'll bet they are not aware; they were just trapped in a small way of thinking.
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In case anyone was wondering as i was, the anime is Maison Ikkoku
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Both feel true, i'd like someone who would push me forward in a direction Im already going but I don't want to become something Im not or will never be.
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"Ah yes the Pig mailman effect"
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i guess maybe that's also why some arguments are rooted from defending your own ego bec we're afraid to lose ourselfves in that relationship
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So that's why the king of the hill episode where the pork guy turns luanne into a redhead is called pigmalion
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This video is making me now paranoid on whether I'm doing something because I want to or because of the pygmalion effect lol
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It’s so hard to be truly vulnerable, instead of just wearing the mask that others think is my vulnerability.
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It's nice to sit with shorts like these on repeat and study the complex terms and context to get the idea of the topic....
That being said I have no idea what he's saying even if I focus as hard as I can 😂. I might just stick to the longer videos in all honesty and give my two cents that way. These shorts feel exclusive
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I love this ❤️ it's fascinating and so well expressed in a matter of seconds.
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... well said & so true ... 'jumping into a relationship' is always a bad idea, tho it's a very popular one, because it's all fueled by emotions, & not logic ... & what compounds problems is that after sex is also 'rushed into', then rational thinking is an even further distanced target, & that's when the misery really sets in ... & but for the sake of these precious children ... when will people realize that the person they are so desperately searching for is actually The Self ... anyway, live, hopefully learn, & best of luck folks ... ❤❤❤
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@sin3358
1 year ago
There's a reason why every therapist I've met always emphasizes how important the "I statement" is. Basically, when you feel like speaking about your partner, say "I feel x when you do y" if angry, or don't say "you ARE " but state an opinion such as "I have the feeling that you're a bit introverted" or whatever it may be. Your partner is not you, they're their own person
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