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I used to live with two roommates, a guy and a girl. One day the guy was just a bit later than usual coming home, and I said âheâs in a bad mood, we should go to my room. We have like 2 minutes get your stuffâ to the girl. I was right, exactly 2 minutes and in a bad mood, but just a normal bad day that he wasnât going to take out on anyone. They were both my friends and nothing bad happened, but they both told me afterwards that thatâs not a normal ability and that they were pretty sad about what must have made me able to do that. It was the first time I realized that I tell my story pretty often without meaning to
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Itâs a blessing and a curse. Sometimes I get too into it and read too into peoples body language and communication and end up coming to an unrealistic conclusion about myself.
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Can relate... My first thought is usually " oh they playin". Meaning they are playing with me. Overthinking and hyper vigilance go hand in hand.
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Yup
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Omg this! đŻ
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My hypervigilance is from a narcissistic mother. I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. Made me about 6 kinds of empath rolled into one.
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Itâs bad when people are like âjust stop youâre stressing yourself outâ like dude I know but nine year old me learned this was essential to survive I canât just shut it off
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I am so hypervigilant, I am borderline psychic. I can read people really easily.
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Absolutely! I know automatically, I know when mom has her hands in it, I know about the sneaky pictures to show her how im doing, i know when a gift is a gift and when it's a tool to hurt other people, I just know
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My former best friends would do this kind of thing because we all grew up with it. It was a nasty cycle
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I love that! I can't say i grew up in an abusive household, but my father did yell a lot and throw things. It was very stressful. Because of it, i did grow up being able to read people's emotions very easily so i could act accordingly without upsetting them. I do also pick up on things easily, just like you did with your friends! It definitely feels like a superpower sometimes, though i understand it stems from childhood trauma.
I was a receptionist for a few years at a car dealership, and i could tell who was walking up to my desk without looking up just by the sound of their footsteps. I told my friend and she didn't believe me, so i proved it to her and she was floored 𤣠I'm very good at pattern recognition
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The combination of trauma and AuDHD has meant that I can basically see the future with my amazing pattern recognition and hypervigilance... I have to make an active choice not think about surprises like birthday presents from my husband otherwise I always figure them out and spoil them!
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That sounds exhausting. At a very young age I decided to not give time to that kind of game. As a result people quickly learn you come to me with your problem or I'll ignore it. It has made my adult like far more peaceful.
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When I 'catch' someone doing anything tricky behind the scene like that, we're done. I don't like the feeling of 'catching' and do not associate with shady folks like that
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I somehow know what people are actually feeling when they post. They can post âThis was a fun dayâ with 10 smiling pictures and I can still tell they just got in a fight with their parents just before postings and were trying to cheer themselves up by looking back on a good day with their parents.
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When I met my husband, he couldn't surprise me. My hypervigilance made it that I figured out all his surprises before he could execute them.
He eventually sat me down and was like... can you stop? This is not normal. It took me a couple of years, but i did get it to stop.
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I have that skill, though I call it patern recognition. It's both very useful and somewhat crippling at the same time.
It's useful because I work with lots of different people with different personalities and behavior patterns; and I'm able to determine what will happen before it does and can avoid toxic people while helping frustrated coworkers and stopping fights from happening over misunderstandings.
It also helps me with comforting people who aren't feeling well do to anxiety, getting overwhelmed, or feeling upset/hurt physically or mentally.
The crippling part is my pattern recognition also hurts me mentally and socially. There are many ways it does, but they can all be summarized as my brain telling me don't do this thing because that thing will happen...
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My brain is a conspiracy theory cork board with red string everywhere like the Always Sunny in Philadelphia meme. I honestly considered an envelope system with my predictions in them so I could just hand over the envelope when I was right in the end. People do not like being called out on their predictabilityâŚ
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Yes, I am definitely that hypervigilant, but, it's a pretty useful coping mechanism most of the time. Not just in social situations, but in dealing with people in general.
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@Rynleekai
5 months ago
Iâm just sharing an experience and hoping this doesnât turn into a discussion about whether I should be friends with these two people. Thatâs not what this is about.
If you can relate, I see you.
Itâs such a weird thing to experience and to be honest, it can be so exhausting.
Anyways, happy healing friends đ¤â¤ď¸âđť
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