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You think you would never make this choice, but I bet you do this more than you realize! Don't be the kind of person who focuses on the negative. You can learn more about this from my book, "Hold On, But Don't Hold Still".


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@jfjdjdji723

4 years ago

Wow, so accurate. Why do we do this??! The other night my husband and I were talking about how hard it is to truly accept a compliment. Why have we conditioned ourselves with this false humility of unbelief and unacceptance?

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@shadowrose914

2 years ago

I felt my heart drop with that one negative comment. I catch myself doing this all the time. Thank you for the visual. It's a great reminder that we need to remember all the good in ourselves.

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@DeetsterB

4 years ago

Damnit, Ms Kusmic, I’m sobbing now. The negative jar is always the one in my head.
Someone at work told me “you’re amazing” and later that night I sobbed and listed all the ways I wasn’t from negative things people said about me.

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@zapbutton8553

4 years ago

I am trying to teach to my children, to grasp for the positive glass, yet i am the one grabbing for the wrong container every so often. thank you like always <3 Thank you for putting yourself out here and doing this work to inspire us!
You're wonderful

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@ihaberle

4 years ago

You’re amazing. You say things we have to hear in a way that is tough and easy at the same time. You make us rethink our attitudes day after day. Thank you for being you and for being so relatable.

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@kimbare7434

4 years ago

Bawling my eyes out
Because I do this a lot
When I see someone or hear someone do this to another, I speak up. Tell them how I still feel like that person that was told you're a burden. I beg them to see themselves, as getting the verbal, emotional and physical abuse they are dishing out. Then I try to hug or hold their hand, to let them know there is someone out there that cares about their feelings too.

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@LetsFocusOnChrist

4 years ago

We were just talking about this concept the other day. Going to show this to my kids. What a great visual!

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@cindylou6084

4 years ago

My sister is so toxic. She's always hated me. I'm quiet -- she's loud. I've never been in handcuffs -- she's been arrested 16 times. I have a circle of friends -- she runs friends off. Anyway, my point is that I've had to listen to her say those awful, negative things to me, and I've needed to make a solid decision. Do keep letting it affect me? I decide "NO". Let her toxic mind and heart affect her own life. I. Don't. Care. Let her say what she wants. I. Don't. Care. She's nobody to me. I had to make that decision and I do it for my own sanity. I'm done.
This video is powerful. I love the message it conveys. We need to try our hardest to keep positives about ourselves front and center in our mindsets. I do, too. It's part of self-care, like eating, bathing, brushing our teeth. Self care = care about ourselves.❤

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@carinawoodmansee9699

4 years ago

This was so creative. I tell this to my kids ALL. THE. TIME. 👍👍

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@lindamann5858

4 years ago

Hey Kristina! 🤗 This one really made me sad 😫😪 Why do we listen to those awful voices in our nightmarish memories? Those people apparently had more problems than we do & dont know how to handle it.
You Are Good Enough!!
Hugs from Colorado

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@MeditativeLullabyASMR

4 years ago

This is such an important message, so many people carry around the burden of others' hurtful words, constantly ruminating on it and it is so detrimental. I hope more people see this! (btw your good mom parody was amazing!)

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@timmytwodogs

4 years ago

I lived this nightmare my whole life. My parents split when I was a baby and left me with my grandparents. When your own parents reject you, that one bean is yours forever. You're never good enough no matter what you accomplish.
Thank you Kristina, with all my heart for your wisdom.

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@CANADA585

4 years ago

YAAASSSS QUEEN!!! Self-esteem and self-image are things we all struggle with. Sometimes we feel alone because it doesn't seem like other people are struggling too, but we all deal with insecurities.
There's an old First Nations story about how everyone has two wolves fighting inside them. One wolf represents fear and the other represents love. Moral of the story is, the wolf that wins is the one you feed.
That's my two cents of the day. Thank you for your video. I bet you really work hard on your YouTube career.

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@technoruckus

4 years ago

My heart aches bc this hit HARD. I'll never forget this and am going to share with my 15 yr old daughter right now. Thank you ❤

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@TigerMom489

4 years ago

Wow, that was seriously powerful! 😱

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@RomyMimus

4 years ago

Wow. Thanks. Instantly made me cry. Apparently needed that real bad! So thank you for making me rethink!!

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@brightpage1020

3 years ago

My family shows their love in weird ways. They don't give verbal compliments. They, like, smell my hair to tell me they need cuddle time. Or smile in their sleep when I put sweatshirt in their crib to sleep with after fussing I out them down there. They leave me alone to do dishes and clean the kitchen. This is love 💕 They bug me for attention & supervision while I'm cooking what should be a 30 minute meal. It takes 3 hours. I am that much more important to them than eating, but they get more insistent the longer it takes so I try to speed it up (or order pizza by 5:30 if we haven't eaten yet. I can keep the cooking the meal, refrigerate it, and have it the next day instead. They giggle with me at fart jokes at the dinner table (toddler boys started it!) Um. They say bad words to watch my reaction and they remind me to "stop it or soap it" when I do. They tell me their incessant wants, and bring me all their problems. They can't find anything without me. Like clean socks. Ever.

They can't sleep unless I'm in the room with them. They invited to wake up with a dance party before school. Get dressed to the Trolls soundtrack! Oh yeah!

It's love. 💕 those are the compliments in my household.

Thanks for this reminde

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@ilariac2020

4 years ago

So powerful. Thanks!!

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@dream-lab

4 years ago

I was thinking how to portrey this problem easy and short and well YOU did it! Also the problem is somethimes this little Voice is OURS and thays even more scarier! Thank you!

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@DroptheLuggage

3 years ago

Amazing, was just thinking of you the other day. So glad to run across this, once again you strike home on such a relatable level. Thank you for putting these videos out. Gives a sense of connection on a deeper level and so many of us need it now. Kudos to you.

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