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Amber Akilla @UCqq8YNQ2GXEC9hSvQpiGiqQ@youtube.com

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the price of slaying is haters
33:46
things i learnt about friendship in my 20s
15:30
situationships are self harm
41:34
30 things i learnt before 30 that keep my brain wrinkled (PART 2)
24:05
the disrespect is the closure
32:36
hot girl habits for crazy b*tches ☆
20:31
how to start new habits when your brain is mush
33:23
how to cure your chronically online clownery (internet & phone addiction)
42:39
30 things i learnt before 30 that rewired my mangled brain (part 1)
16:15
how to actually be confident + unbothered ☆ part 1: you are BORED
42:25
how to be confident and unbothered when you are insane
28:43
how to actually be confident + unbothered ☆ PART 2: you are a HATER
24:05
the disrespect is the closure :-)
55:06
ethical non-monogamy is fake news 🫶
32:13
hot girl habits for crazy b*tches ☆
22:54
do what u enjoy
02:06:56
tiktok live highlights: decentering men, friend breakups, beauty standards and moreeee~
13:01
99 - (PREVIEW) FIGHT BACK (defending against haters)
34:36
98 - haters gonna hate: psychology behind criticism & negative feedback
02:17:21
97 - girl confessions: visa marriage, divorce, celibacy, living with men
02:16:24
97 - Girl Confessions: Navigating Visa Marriage, Divorce, Celibacy & Living w Men
12:59
96 - (PREVIEW) leaving your hometown: navigating new beginnings, cutting ties
52:36
95 - girl confessions: lovebombed by a creative director and unhinged flings - exploring modern r...
52:05
95 - Girl Confessions: Lovebombed by a Creative Director & Unhinged Flings-Exploring Modern Romance
13:13
94 - (PREVIEW) full-time vs freelance: navigating your career path
52:48
93 - nice guys & pick-me girls: gender expectations
01:36:23
92 - Girl Confessions: Navigating the Crazy Girlfriend Era, Delusional Crushes, and Becoming Secure
01:36:24
92 - girl confessions: crazy girlfriend era, delusional crushes & becoming secure
13:47
91 - (PREVIEW) go where you're appreciated: finding self worth in the right places
32:41
90 - DE-CENTER EVERYTHING: men, women, beauty, feminism - focus on yourself
46:16
89 - dating for money, financial dynamics & sprinkle sprinkle
53:57
88 - emotional accountability & relationship roadblocks
07:57
hi i'm amber akilla 🎀
29:11
Romance Q&A ~ icks, love-bombing, settling vs forgiveness
03:55
DJING IN SHENZHEN CHINA
27:07
87 - 30 and no friends :( dealing w loneliness
09:05
everything is vibes
27:07
30 and no friends :( dealing with loneliness as an adult
33:59
86 - situationships
46:03
85 - jealousy is a disease - envy & jealousy
38:57
84 - "high value women", growth & why people cheat
31:32
83 - quarter life crisis
17:19
82 - non negotiable hobby
35:55
81 - what do you have to offer?
31:47
80 - negative self talk
21:36
79 - and what do you get out of it?
15:59
78 - resigning as the friend group therapist
31:22
77 - offence vs disrespect
03:37
cantonese style hot pot in shanghai!
01:52:26
76 - girl confessions: hinge, single friends, age gaps, dating as a WoC
01:30:56
75 - boy confessions: freshly 30, "the spark", dating expectations
36:36
74 - wtf is a boundary
25:33
73 - what are you doing with your life???
45:13
72 - why people don't change
37:01
71 - SEASON FIVE !!! one year back in shanghai !!!
34:58
70 - what about career switches? season 4 wrap!
34:58
what about career switches? season 4 wrap of friend crush!
39:34
healing a broken heart vs bruised ego
39:34
69 - healing a broken heart vs a bruised ego